Am I broken? Answer inside...

Hey you,

I saw you clicked through one of my newsletters so I wanted to personally reach out as clearly something I’m writing resonated with you :)

  • "Ever feel like sex is something that happens to you, rather than something you're actively choosing?"

  • "Ever wonder if your relationships could feel more balanced and less draining?"

  • "Do you often catch yourself thinking, 'Am I attractive enough, good enough, or desirable enough?'"

  • "Have you ever wished for a deeper emotional connection but struggled to open up?"

  • "Ever thought, 'Why don’t I feel turned on anymore? Is there something wrong with me?'"

  • "Ever questioned if stress, anxiety, or exhaustion is secretly sabotaging your sex life?"

  • "Have you caught yourself prioritising everyone else’s pleasure and neglecting your own?"

  • "Ever felt misunderstood during intimacy, thinking 'Why can't I just say what I really want?'"

If you've ever asked yourself one of those questions, you're not broken, weird, or alone. You're human and Turn Yourself On was written for exactly that version of you. It’s like having a wise, no-bullshit best friend walk you through the messy, beautiful process of figuring out what you actually want from sex, love, and yourself.

With real stories, science-backed tools, and zero shame, it helps you get clear, get confident, and get turned on, in every sense of the word. If something’s been feeling off, this book might just be the thing that helps you come home to yourself.

I noticed you clicked on the button link to buy a copy of ‘Turn Yourself On’. Did you decide to pre-order it? If so, I want to make sure you get entered into the raffle and access to our Ferly app for 1 year (see below). So please email me proof of purchase and I’ll send you the code to redeem your free year.

If you’re still on the fence or you’re not interested in the book, I’d love to know why? Your feedback helps me make this newsletter more interesting and enjoyable for you.

Have you pre-ordered our book?

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We’re only 7 days out from publication which feels crazy after two long years of writing and editing. That also means this giveaway and offer will only be valid for 7 more days.

Pre-order in the next 7 days and you’ll get a free year to the app and be in for a chance to win…

  1. An entire year free to the Ferly (the app that’s been used by 600K women) - £40

    Inside the app you’ll find:

    • a library of beautiful female focused audio erotica

    • incredibly expertly created courses that help you enjoy better sex

    • solo and partnered guided practices to reconnect you to your pleasure

    • and so much more

  2. Entry into a raffle to win 1 of 20 sensual goodie bags from our exclusive launch event (yes, we will ship it to you wherever you are)

    • Scrumptious chocolate from Ocelot, a feminist, ethical Scottish brand, to delight your taste buds - £6.99

    • Juniper incense cones, a luxurious candle, and a complimentary massage from Haeckels (wow!) to stimulate your sense of smell - £165

    • Silky smooth lube and condoms from Hanx, a female-founded brand, to awaken your sense of touch - £28

    • A custom illustration by the brilliant designer Clare Dallimore to captivate your sight - priceless

    • A personalised sensual playlist crafted by the phenomenal DJ India Bailey to entice your ears - £50

    • And finally, a stylish TYO tote bag to beautifully carry all your sensory delights home - £50

  3. And Remember….you’ll also be entered into a raffle to win 1 of 5 beautiful toys from the gorgeous, elegant, sex toy brand, LELO (yes, we will ship it to you wherever you are) - £150

Total Prize Value: £489.99!

This deal is only live until the 22nd May. Email me proof of purchase to get your redeemable code to the Ferly app.

A personal note from me

This book is incredibly important to Anna and I.

It’s validation that the work w’ve dedicated almost a decade of our lives too really matters and is helping women. It’s also proof that when you believe in yourself, incredible things can happen. This journey started after I was sexually assaulted at work. After a year of being consumed by shame and self-loathing, I had the courage to bet on myself and a few years later Ferly was born.

Anna and I have poured years of love, energy, time and money into this work. And to be honest, it’s been really unrewarding at times. Our app is such a brilliant resource for women but big Tech like Instagram Apple and Google kept/keep kicking us off their platforms as apparently we violate their sexual conduct policy - we’re a sex therapy and education app but they lump us in with hardcore porn.

We decided to stop fighting big tech and try an analog approach instead - and so the book was born. Instead of relying on Facebook to help us close the pleasure gap and help more women enjoy their sex lives, we’re hoping our community - this community - will power our message and rally behind us.

We know £18 might feel like a lot of money for a book which is why we’ve tried to make it the most valuable book you’ll ever own:

  • ~40 well researched tools that have been tried in tested

  • A website with all the tools downloadable so you can have beautiful digital versions in case you want to share them or keep them

  • Years of research into the science of sex to make sure all our advice was the most up to date and useful as possible

  • A free subscription to the app (£40) so you’re actually saving money

  • The chance to win the most incredible goodie bag worth almost £500

Pre-orders of this book are SO important because:

  • They signal to book stores that people want to read it and that encourages them to buy in bulk.

  • Amazon will list it as it’s pick of the week which has huge reach.

  • The Sunday Times will feature the book giving us authority and even more reach.

  • Podcasts will invite us on to speak meaning we can connect with women outside this community.

  • TV broadcasters will invite us on as guests. And wouldn’t it be wonderful to see female pleasure centred on TV?

  • It will give us the confidence to keep going, to keep writing this newsletter that you open every week and to show us that you find value in what we’re creating.

Pre-orders shape the trajectory of this books success. The more pre-orders we get, the more reach we will have and the more lives you and I can change together. 

Sent with pleasure
Billie x