We Wrote A Book, and It Might Just Change Your Life!

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Hi friends! 👋

Welcome to a very special edition of Pillow Talk!

Today, I’m revealing the book cover and name of our brand new book. I am so excited to share it with you and can’t wait for you to read about how it came to be. Please keep reading - I’d love to hear your first impressions so reply to this email with your thoughts.

Nurturing Desire

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Your Pleasure is A Birthright (This Book Will Show You how to Claim It)

In 2018, Anna and I set out on an ambitious mission: could we close the pleasure gap?

The stats were (and still are) bleak:

📉 95% of men climax regularly during sex. Only 65% of heterosexual women do.
📉 51% of women struggle to orgasm, experience low libido, painful sex, and sexual anxiety.

That’s millions of women settling for unsatisfying, disconnected, or downright bad sex.

7 years later, we’re still fighting to change this—but we’ve already come so far:

✅ 500,000 women in 70+ countries have accessed our app.
✅ We’ve sent ~364 free newsletters (one every week for 7 years).
✅ Our TedX talk has been watched by 30,000 people.

But here’s the thing: the pleasure gap still exists.

Women are still faking orgasms.
Still making excuses to avoid sex.
Still telling themselves they’re “just not that interested” instead of admitting that the sex they’re having isn’t working for them.

And it’s NOT our fault.

🛑 School failed us.
🛑 The media lied to us.
🛑 Disney warped our expectations.
🛑 And our parents? Well, they probably did their best with the ‘birds and the bees’ chat.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Over the last 7 years, Anna and I have been on a profound journey of self-discovery.

Through learning about sex, we learned about ourselves.
Prioritising our pleasure in the bedroom taught us how to step into our power beyond it.

We’ve shared these learnings and the tools with our clients and watched relationships not just survive, but thrive. We’ve seen sex lives reignited with more intimacy, more confidence, more joy. And most importantly, we’ve watched these women come alive again—rediscovering their desire, their confidence, their fire.

So, in 2023, when Penguin Life approached us (for the third time) and asked us to write a book, we knew it was time.

We had the tools.
We had the research (basically a PhD’s worth).

We had the client results and testimonials.
We had the lived experience.

And today, I’m beyond excited to introduce you to our debut book…

🔥 Turn Yourself On: Get Confident, Discover Pleasure, Find Your Power 🔥

This book is a roadmap for every woman who wants to:
✨ Enjoy sex (and actually look forward to it)
✨ Cultivate deep, secure, enriching relationships
✨ Feel. Fucking. Fantastic.

This book is for…
👩‍🎓 Your teenage daughter (so she never has to unlearn harmful myths).
🤱 Your new mum friends (navigating the postpartum shift).
👵 Your mum (who deserves pleasure in menopause, too).
💃 Your single friends.
💍 Your friends in long-term relationships.
💖 You.

Basically, this book is for all women.

It’s the pleasure-focused sex education we should have had.
It’s a hand to hold when you feel lost.
It’s a warm hug when you can’t give one to yourself.

It’s your insanely educated best friend who loves chatting about sex and wants nothing more than to see you THRIVE in life.

Anna and I wrote this book with love, care, and—honestly—a huge amount of vulnerability.

We’re sharing some of our most intimate stories with you, because our hope is that it gives you the courage to claim your own desires—in the bedroom, in your relationships, and in your life.

💥 Pre-order your copy now.
Because when we get honest about what Turns Us On (or off), we can finally go out and get it.

We’ve Given You So Much for Free—Now, We’re Asking for One Thing.

For the past seven years, we’ve poured our hearts into this work.

We’ve shared knowledge, research, and insights.
We’ve written hundreds of newsletters.
We’ve built tools, created resources, and asked for little in return—except that you take what you learn and use it to change your life.

But today, we are asking for something.

This book means everything to us. We believe in its transformational power—not just for you, but for all of us.

✨ Please pre-order a copy.
✨ If you can, buy multiple copies—for your friends, your sister, your mum.
✨ Help us reach as many women as possible.

Because here’s the truth: your purchasing power is immense.
Every single pre-order sends a message: women’s pleasure matters.
Every copy sold pushes this movement forward, bringing this conversation into the mainstream where it belongs.

And the best part? You don’t have to march in the streets or shout from the rooftops.
You can be part of this revolution silently, from the comfort of your home—simply by hitting ‘pre-order.’

It would mean the world to us. Truly.

Join us on our mission and let’s Close the Pleasure Gap together.

💬 Food For Thought

“A woman’s pleasure is not just about sex—it’s about power, autonomy, and self-worth." 

📢 Share with a friend who wants to find her power again.

Sent with pleasure,

Billie ✨