Hi my loves 🧡
As we head further into 2026, I want to hit reset for a moment and remind you exactly what Ferly is here to do, and how we support women who feel disconnected, stuck, or frustrated with their intimacy.
For far too long, we’ve been miseducated, misled, and sold unrealistic ideas about what our sex lives “should” look like, leaving so many women feeling broken or behind.
Ferly exists to fight that, with practical tools, compassion, and science-backed support that actually works.
Right now, there are a few different ways you can explore this work:
✨ The Ferly App
Our app is a self-led space full of evidence-backed practices to help you understand your body, your desire, and your relationship patterns. It’s where over a million women have already started their journey!
📖 The Book & Workbooks
Our best-selling book Turn Yourself On and our guided workbooks help you dive deeper into topics like agency, confidence, boundaries, and pleasure in a really tangible, actionable way, perfect if you like working through things in your own time (links at the bottom).
💛 The Ferly Method: Personalised 1:1 Support
And this is the new layer I’m most excited to share with you.
As your new resident sex coach at Ferly, I’ll be bringing the Ferly Method to life through personalised one-to-one support with a limited number of women.
If you didn’t already know, Ferly is BIG on science! This method is built from years of research, real-world coaching, and insights from industry titans and over a million users of our app. We’ve seen it work with thousands of women who came to us feeling lost, desperate, and resigned to avoiding sex, and we’ve supported them into a place where they feel confident, connected, and genuinely enjoying the sex life they’ve always wanted.
Rather than just talking about problems, the Ferly Method focuses on understanding what’s really happening beneath things like low desire, disconnection, or sex feeling like a chore, and then gently shifting those patterns through practical, supportive work.
In our 1:1 sessions, we explore things like:
confidence and agency in relationships
communication and emotional safety
how desire actually works (and why it changes over time)
reconnecting with pleasure in a way that feels natural and pressure-free
It’s not about fixing you. It’s about helping you feel more like yourself again.
If you’ve been reading Turned On, doing the exercises, or following along quietly and thinking, “I’d love some personal support with this,” this might be for you. (We love action-takers!)
No pressure, just a conversation to see what you need and how I can support you.
As always, thank you for being here and for being part of this community.
Sent with pleasure,
Lexy 🧡
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